get catcalled waiting for a shuttle
girl friend: you should be flattered, you look hot!
get racistly catcalled walking home from class
multiple friends: you should be flattered, at least you look Asian.
Yes friends, because my main concern is whether or not middle aged men who see me from their cars think i look good. Apparently you think I should judge my self worth on how Asian I look.
I went to this book store and their books were wrapped up in paper with small descriptions so no one would “judge a book by its cover”